Seduction is often frowned upon as immoral. Yet it is used constantly. Not only in dating and sexual escapades but also in society for social advancement such as fame, or money. Women use makeup very carefully and are well aware of its effect on men and good make up is essential on a date (just as confidence is for a man). Beautiful women embodying the aspects of the 'Sirens'(think Marylyn Monroe) still marry men for their money as much as 'bad boys' (read 'Rakes') still attract women like flies each one knowing what he is but believing they can be the one to change him and make him their own.

So is seduction bad? Only if you are willing to accept the way of culture and society is bad. If so, then the reasons for this go back many thousands of years. Fighting against culture and society is like fighting the ocean. Somewhat retarded, or at the very least, in need of a reality check. You can choose to use the techniques of seduction in a moral way to help people. However, the techniques you will have to use to gain social power will be the same.

Growing, as an individual, requires you to be aware of society and its manipulations; both to protect yourself and to move forward if that is what you want (hopefully with goals of integrity). To think of the techniques of seduction as 'evil' or 'bad' is the same as judging a knife to be good or bad. A knife is just a knife, it is the users intent which is the root cause of problems not the techniques of tools themselves.

If you want an ideal woman, or lots of women (or vice versa if you are a gal) then all you have to do is learn the types and techniques of the art of seduction and apply them. Women will be naturally better at this because they have practically engineered to be better at observing body language to a point where some women seem even 'psychic' in their ability to read a persons inner feelings.

Another important point to keep in mind is that people want to be seduced. Woman often talked of desiring to be 'swept of their feet' or to be carried away by 'a knight and shining armor' (and even by a desert Bedouin). Men talk about how they would love to meet a sexually aggressive woman(think of the movie Basic Instinct). In other words, a successful seduction occurs when you make your 'victims' fantasies come true.

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